To attract, you must stand out. You can’t do that if you are one apple in a bin of apples. If you want to catch someone’s eye, be an orange! And don’t go thinking “but I am just like everyone else” — because you’re not. You have unique experiences. Share them with the object of your woo.

Social Media

  • Get their attention by ‘liking’ everything they’ve ever posted
  • Post pictures of what you’re doing and tag them in it
  • Change your status to “It’s complicated”
  • Be friendly by following all their friends

Text

  • Emoji, emoji, emoji!
  • Really open up, let them know about your feelings
  • Tell them why your last relationship didn’t work, in detail
  • Frequently ask them what they’re doing, this shows interest
  • Try saying everything in emoji

Voice

  • It’s normal that they don’t pick up their phone (who does that any more?)
  • Leave detailed messages about how you are doing
  • If you mess up a voicemail, call back immediately to correct it
  • If their voicemail fills up, record audio or video snippets and text them